2 in 1 in Relationships

Hey Hong Chun here,

I will be going to brief about my title today which is 2 in 1 in relationships. 2 IN 1 Relationships means that 2 people committed in 1 relationships.

In a relationships, other than cemistry , the most important thing is 2 people unite as one. It is important that 2 lover are view as one. In a relationships, 2 Lover are known as ONE pair of couple, ONE world of them, ONE special way to communicate, ONE but no one else can separate them, ONE words used which is 'we', ONE thing to share and ONE memory of them.

From my experience, almost all the relationships starting with perception. Perception can be the first impression towards that particular person, in other words what make a person to attract by other person? what makes that person is so special to another person.

Next is where the person starts to approch the other person whom he/she likes.They communicate to each other more frequent and spend time to understand to each other. They even try to do something together. This is where the intimacy, interpersonal and social bonding start to form between 2 lover. As in the right time after one of them confess to another person, they will start to change their status from friendship into couple. They start to form a relationship bond by holding hands,hugging, and kissing which are sexual intimacy.

Well a thought that always keep in our mind that, we will be happily ever after. Well, it's not true at all. It is because every couple has their own conflicts. This is where they learn to communicate to each other and solve the problems together.They learned to trust, loyal and contribute commitment.

When a relationship reached a certain level of conflict, deterioration comes in. This is where the interpersonal dissatisfaction occur. In deterioration occured, it comes along with miscommunication and perception clash. It is a dangerous stage because it can either move on to repair stage or dissolution. Repair stage is they repair their dissatisfaction while dissolution is where they separate from one into two. Well don't worry, the good part about this relationship chart is ,it is reversible and can start again.


In conclusion , in a relationship, everything has to be together and invovles both people to get things well. There are no one side party and remember, it has to be 2 people together to commit and take the responsibility. I once again emphasize that everything has to be together and 2 in 1. If not, things will never get good and it will break. Here, I would like to insert my quote in a relationship:

'As long as we don't give up on another half of us, we shall overcome everything together!'