hmmm....i haven't really noticed this till i took up human communication. I always thought that maybe i just think too much about other people and always think badly of them. Now i know its not like that.really.. whatever a person does tells us something about him/her as mr murali said so many times already.
the way a person dresses, the way a person behaves, the way he/she eats, drinks, talks, looks, well just everything okay!!! tells us something that we may not so easily find out about him/her...so, the first time you meet a person gives you a first impression of him/her...and based on this first impression i have of people, i usually decide whether i want to befriend them or not...ahh...i am facing some kinda communication prob here..i forgot what it is called already;p
so yeah, if they gave me a not so friendly or approachable first impression, i just ignore them..or more like avoid them..i feel something like scared of them because they give me an uncomfortable feeling..maybe because of the 11years i spent in a girls only environment...11years of being with the same people, that you feel secured as you know and understand everyone like family...
that is why now in college, i find making new friends very scary and hard...the message i got from people here seem so negative/bold that i just backoff.. i choose to just disappear...=) now i know i lack in communication skills...i hope i may be able to cure this off after this semester...sighs..
p.s : i don't know what exactly i'm crapping on about...sorry..will do better next time...i'm still so blur..haiz...
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