there are many ways of saying just one simple thing...for example, you want to say `i hate you' to someone but don't have the courage to do so, you put it in a milder version - ` i don't like your .......(whatever he/she uses) everytime, hoping it will give the other some hints of what you really want meant..seriously, this won't do...sometimes, it will be misunderstood by others and that is when problems arise...
besides that, the intonation and feelings you potray while delivering a message also matters...if you tell a person that you hate him/her with a dazzling smile and happy feeling, do you think that he/she will take you seriously??? the answer is NO!!! thus, you must learn to use the correct choice and arrangements of words when delivering a message..take note of who the message receivers are...if they are someone of higher ranking or is elder than you, rephrase your message to make it sound more polite and prefessional...definately no smileys or swear words allowed...
you must also beware of your intonations and feelings as it will influence the receiver too...lets say you got pissed off by your dog because it pees everywhere...then you went over to your friends house and was invited my her parents for dinner...as you were angry at the moment, you refused their invitation in an almost shouting manner and looked as if you were to burst any minute...what would they think of you??? surely not something nice i'm sure..
hence, when communicating, the way you deliver your message also plays a big part in getting the correct message through...it is very easy to deliver messages to people but it is really delivering the CORRECT message that really counts...so please take further precautions in the future...you may find it an advantage on your side most of the time;especially when persuading ;p
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