Sunday, September 13, 2009

Oh no! I Can't Avoid it! I Can't Take It back! And I Can't repeat it!

Lession1:Communication is inevitable!
Definitely! Whether you are talking to someone or not, looking at someone or not you are still communicating.One very unconscious form of communication is body language.For example if you seea dirty beggar on the street you would unconsciously cringe.Or less look on the brighter side if you were to see a good looking guy or pretty lady your eyes would unconsciously be attracted to them.One of my favourite articles form cosmopolitan says if a guys' upper torso is faced to you whether or not his face is facing you, that means your the most interesting person in the room.So ladies rememeber that! :) So whether you say it or not communication is verbal, non verbal,consciously done and the other way round.

Lesson 2: No there's no such thing as taking it back!
I don't get the idea of people saying "oh I'm sorry i take it back" how does one do that when it has already come out of your mouth registered in the other person's brain and obviously has offended them? There have been countless of incidents where celebrities, talk show hosts and comedians who have gone too far only to say "oh sorry i take it back" In the real world once you've said it ts irreversible!


Lesson 3:Unrepeatable
I love you! =)
Can you rememeber the very first time a particular girl or boy told you they "loved you" do you rememeber the feeling that came about along with those words? Its not so much the words that are said because words can be repeated again and again sometimes even in the exact same tone, however the feeling or emotions that went along with it can never be replicated in the exact same manner.And of course the more it is repeated the less meaningful it becomes and the more familiar it becomes.That why words are important, but the way it is said and the underlying message that is trying ot be conveyed is even more important!

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