it was just a mere clarification of my perception... i asked why he left without a word to join others when i thought he is with us... she explained that they agreed to separate if they can't find anyone else...with that, it is settled...i have wrongly perceived him and now i acknowledge that...then later, he was late for the meeting and was blur of what we discussed...so i told her about it saying that he was like `sesat' because he joined the conversation only half way through...
however, the next minute, he was back online again accusing me of apeaking ill of him behind his back...i was bewildered and very much hurt...he accused me of calling him a betrayer and a `sesat' person...omg...what a big difference it is from my original meaning...i didn't even mention the word betray before and the sesat merely meant that he is lost...all thanks to her, i now have this guy here insulting, hurting, threatening and frightening me...and thanks to his verbal assault, i feel so frightened and scared...i tried to explain but the message just wouldn't get through...i really don't know what to do!!! i wish god will let the truth be known soon!!! i wish someone can help me or protect me from them!!!
anyway, here is the moral of the story...always make yourself very extremely clear when clarifying about a perception from others...and always make sure that the person understand a slang you use at all cost...never ever assume that they will see the meaning of anything the way you see it!!! a simple word like `sesat' which i use a lot in my daily conversation and with my friends is something very common to us...it might mean that the person is blur or weird or random or it can mean almost anything you want it to mean....however, some other people can actually interpret it into something that jeopardize their reputation...i am just so speechless...
so well, be careful ya guys...
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